By Brenda Thompson, www.VisitingAngels.com

If you have an elderly parent who is getting along just fine on their own thank you very much, keep a watchful eye for changes. That blood glucose monitor they were adept at using may become increasing difficult to operate. The pill box they used to set up may seem more and more confusing. Or the shower tub they had no problem getting into might now be an insurmountable hurdle.

No one wants to admit they are having trouble with daily tasks, especially someone who has been totally independent all their lives. Adult children need to check in periodically with their aging parents and ask how everything is going. Better yet visit them in their home and see for yourself how they are getting along.

As a professional caregiver, I assist clients with daily activities so their family members can have some peace of mind. I might open the pill box on the correct day and remind the client it is time for meds. Or, I could start the shower and stand by or assist as needed. I have one client who just needs help putting on her jewelry and fastening clothing because Parkinson’s makes these tasks nearly impossible.

All of us want to stay in our homes for as long as possible. There are many agencies out there that can help that happen. It starts with a conversation and goes from there. Care giving can mean so many different things. If you do bring in a home care agency they should cater to your elderly relative’s needs. You should be able to set up a customized care plan that is reviewed every six months by a case manager. If at any time you notice changes that need to be addressed, contact your case manager and set up a meeting. Professional care givers want and need to know what is going on so they can adjust care when needed. The more communication, the better.

Growing up, Brenda cared for her grandmother who had post polio syndrome.  Today, she is a professional caregiver in Colorado who believes every day can bring new challenges, and with those challenges come great rewards.